Keep Your Relationship Sizzling Hot: A Case Against Faking Orgasms

The world could use a little more pleasure and playfulness.  Play balances life’s complexities.  Keeping the flame of your relationship sizzling hot is one of your rewards for living an authentically sensual life! 

Research shows pleasure, including sexual pleasure, eases stress, calms nerves and balances emotional energy.  Possibly a divine gift! 

Sexual authenticity is your ability to experience who-you-really-are most fully; the ability to transfer sensually radiant energy to your lover; and to receive your lover’s full authentic expression in return.  Sexual authenticity is giving AND receiving with complete abandon.  Sexual authenticity is healthy and is essential to living a rich life.

 Sensuality is a life-long gift you give to yourself.  Sexual attractiveness is based on radiance and vitality, not merely on youthfulness and external good looks. Sexual energy suppressed can be a disease risk factor for both physical and emotional health. An inability to form authentic relationships with one’s self and with others is at the core of many psychological disorders.

Sexual authenticity is based in trust.  Honesty, trustworthiness and respect are absolute essential prerequisites for sex, on a first encounter or after 30 years of marriage.  A solid sense of self is the foundation for your lifelong sexual satisfaction.  Bringing the real you, authentic and fully present, to your intimate encounters permits you to give and receive energy in an endless flow.  As I asked before, why fake it?!

At any age, during all cycles of life, intimate encounters that arouse your senses, cement your relationship. 

Authors Leslie Kaplan and Peg Melnik have a message for you.  In their new book, “Make Love Whenever Possible When Married With Children,” Kaplan and Melnik take you on a blissful ride rediscovering YOUR sexy! 

They motivate couples to play passionately with 50 hot tips to revive romance during the stressful years of raising a family.  Their stories show you how to maintain physical and emotional intimacy amidst the chaos of family life.

While the divorce rate in American is an astonishing rate of 62 percent, keeping a strong connection with your partner is critically important!  “Make Love Whenever Possible When Married With Children” is playful and poignant with spirited vignettes like “Seduce your spouse with humor,” Be a flasher,” and “Experience the post-vasectomy sexual renaissance.”

Spicing up everyday living by stealing time together and “playing hooky,” French kissing, and sexual favors could put your relationship on the positive side of gravity as you sojourn in life together.  You can find their new book and purchase it from Amazon on our Amorosa Bella website at http://www.amorosabella.com/exploration/books/home.html

Kaplan and Melnik would love to hear your feedback and experiences.  You can contact them at www.makelovewheneverpossible.com or melniknote@aol.com

I have final two words of advice for you as you grow more sexually authentic and sensual - Have fun!

Sex is about delight, desire, intimacy, connection, and caring.  If you are hung up on technique, you are missing the point.   

Surrender yourself to the moment, become mindless, relax, touch, give and receive affection, and be aware of the natural ways your body and mind become aroused by playfully connecting with another person.  For more tips and tools, visit http://www.amorosabella.com/marketplace/private/home.html